Happy as can be

When you realize that you have the best spouse who understands you…. your feelings and gives respect to who you are, and what you want to do and be, accepting them as they are with their fragilities without wanting your partner to change into something else, that’s the best thing you could ask for in a marriage. Sometimes you give in and sometimes she gives in….it’s all about letting go and not remembering and recollecting what was said or unsaid and reminding you said or did this….if that can be achieved then you can have a lovely and wonderful marital life….life or partners are not necessarily always perfect…and never will be perfect….when you choose to accept that fact and reality….you will find your partner wholesome and complete….everyone is unique in this world and none are alike in terms of personality, thoughts, and actions….so why force fit someone in some kind of idealistic profile….it can never happen and will never be successful….for we are humans and we follow our own rules unlike robots….love unconditionally and it will be reciprocated with a multiplier effect….